Year 8, Week 9: Chores

     I'm late getting this posted because our computer has been acting up with changing the display size by itself and it's hard to type while it switches from a font of 12 to a font of 72!  I still don't know the cause of it but it seems to have settled down, thank goodness.  Regardless, this is going to be a short one.  Remember that project I mentioned in my last post, the one that I'll be announcing soon?  Well, it's taking every free moment I have and so I'm going to make this post short and then read; something I haven't been able to do much in the past couple of weeks.  Let's get to it!

     Do your kids do chores?  Growing up, as far back as I can remember, we cleaned the house every Friday night.  Mom would blast music and we'd dance around and sing while cleaning.  I remember being in charge of dusting, but it wasn't like I just had a feather duster and could twirl my way quickly through this chore.  I had to remove everything, use dust spray and wipe/polish it all down.  Of course, it started out with mom doing most of it and teaching us how to do it.  Eventually, we were in charge of all of it.  Eventually, it became habit.

     Which is why my kids have chores.  They're listed for the kids on our schedule.  It's a different chore for each child on a particular day which is why you don't see it in that post.  One day one of them is doing all their laundry, from start to finish.  The next day the other kid does the same thing.  The rest of the week there's dusting, vacuuming and cleaning their bathroom.  And yes, they do it every week.  Sometimes, with the exception of laundry, the rest of the chores might be done on a different day (usually Friday) depending on how busy their week is.

     Cleaning their room is a daily thing but that's more focused on something I picked up somewhere (can't remember) called E.H.A.P. (Everything Has A Place).  I use it as a verb, telling the kids to "E.H.A.P." their rooms before screen time.  Whether tidying their rooms or cleaning the house music is always playing, though not aloud since they're listening to it via bluetooth headphones (I can hear myself saying, "Back in my day...Ha!)  The cool thing is they're playing some of the music I listened to years ago!

     As a parent of children with special needs it's good to get these habits in place as early as possible but any child can benefit from doing chores.  If you're not sure what chores your kids can and should do Intoxicated On Life has a great pdf you can download which also includes a chore chart.  This quick reference chart from The Happy Housewife is helpful too:

The Happy Housewife

     Either way, find what works best for you and your family.  One thing I do want to add is that I don't give the kids an allowance for the chores they're supposed to do; the things we as adults still have to do because I still do them and I don't see anyone paying me!  Kids need to learn to do things for the sake of doing them not because they're going to get something for it.  However, I do give them extra screen time for an exceptional cleaning job or we'll go out for ice cream if we tackle a huge project like cleaning out the garage or sorting through their closets.

     I get to make my announcement next week.  Until then enjoy your weekend and have a great week!