Friday, January 14, 2022

New Year Resolutions

       Do you make resolutions? I think they're great if you're able to make small attainable goals and focus on progress instead of perfection. I stopped doing resolutions years ago. I'm not sure when, but I'm guessing it was probably when I was pregnant with Little Toughie. I knew there was no way I could commit to anything just a few months away from giving birth.

     When I think about resolutions for myself I try to think of something that's a little out of my comfort zone. I've made exercise and eating healthy (as much as I can...see below) part of my lifestyle since I enjoy both. I can't resolve to read more (I read 43 books last year...how much more can I read?) I declutter and clean on a regular basis (I have donation boxes sitting in my hallway).

     So, I try to do something different and creative. In 2020, since Little Toughie missed out on all the baking I used to do, I decided to bake a cake once a month. That became slightly challenging when everyone started stocking up on flour (I hope you're all expert bread bakers now)! Despite the empty shelves I was able to bake twelve cakes that year.

     Last year, I was going to do a Filipino dish every month, but if access to flour was troublesome in 2020, access to Filipino ingredients coupled with a shut down here and a shut down there made it practically impossible. Perhaps this year I'll try to post on the blog every couple of weeks. Or I'll actually edit one of the books I wrote for NaNoWrimo. Maybe I'll take an idea out of my Year of Prompts book once a week and let the creative writing juices flow. 

     I haven't decided on anything like that for this year but I can tell you that we've started 2022 diving into the New Testament as a family. Normally, I would purchase a devotional for each of us to start in the New Year but there was a disconnect that didn't sit well with me. If we're all reading different devotionals it makes it hard to discuss, share and dig deeper. We're starting with the NT because it always seems to fall by the wayside toward the end of the year once the holidays approach. I know mine and my family's weaknesses and our focus starts to slowly dwindle as soon as Thanksgiving dinner has been consumed.

     We're using the Bible Recap as our guide. We love it! Everyone does their reading on their own time, usually in the morning. We then make a point to listen to the corresponding podcast together either during or immediately after dinner. We're all enjoying it and The Principal and I love the commentary from the podcast. Very insightful!


     It's not too late to start. It never is. I once heard someone say that there a lot of Christians who are Biblically illiterate. They've either never read their Bible or they've only read bits and pieces. Or they've relied solely on their pastor, minister or priest to tell them what's in it and what it's about. As followers of Christ we need to understand His word in order to respond properly. We can't do that if we don't even read it! We won't know if what we're being taught is Biblical truth or someone pushing an agenda under the guise of God's word. Everyone wants their way, not God's way. If you read your Bible you'd know that God's ways are much, MUCH better.

So, start reading it. Especially now, when there is so much divisiveness...everywhere and in everything. Strive for progress, not perfection.

Monday, January 3, 2022

New Year Reflections

     I can't recall whether or not I've ever done a New Year reflections post but given that I haven't been posting much, I thought I would look take a moment or two and look back at 2021. Plus, yesterday's church sermon was titled "Back and Forward" which compelled me to stop and reflect:
  • The year started out on a somber note with the passing of my aunt.
  • A380 had a nice birthday at home. Shortly thereafter, The Principal celebrated a milestone birthday without all the fanfare since we in another shut down.
  • Little Toughie performed in an original musical via online streaming.
  • Things opened back up and we were able to celebrate Little Toughie's birthday at the same place we did in 2020, right before THE FIRST LOCKDOWN.
  • Also, The Principal scored his first win in the Birthday Mac 'n Cheese Battle. Darn it. Just kidding.
  • With things still open we dined at one of our favorite steak restaurants. I'm only there for the chocolate cake, which they DIDN'T HAVE that day. Doh!
  • We took a trip to Disney World. Little Toughie brought a friend. We can't wait to go back.
  • I got my annual Mother's Day Ravioli, made once again by Little Toughie. I enjoyed every bite!
  • For Father's Day we went back to the same steak restaurant mentioned above. Still no chocolate cake.
  • A380 graduated from high school! My first homeschool graduate.
  • We enjoyed brunch with out of town family.
  • Our church held a Family Cookout. There was a corn hole tournament. We lost. (But had a blast!)
  • Haircuts! I don't know how long it had been since our last cut, but Little Toughie and I were so happy to finally have our go-to guy up and running, err, cutting.
  • We took a long overdue trip to see our family. AND to look for a new home. (Yeah, we're moving).
  • Little Toughie was baptized. Praise the Lord!
  • We took a day trip downtown. We're checking things off of our "Before We Move" list. One down, fifty or so to go.
  • We laid my grandfather to rest. I miss him.
  • Thanksgiving was just the four of us. Simple, quiet and delicious.
  • I authored my second novel participating in NaNoWriMo. Revising will commence next month.
  • We learned my mom has cancer. A blow to what was left of the shattered pieces of my heart that were dangling after the loss of my grandfather (her dad). I am barely functioning, but by the grace of God, the power of Jesus and the prayers our church family and friends. Thank you.
  • We went to Disneyland. Check. Two down.
  • Candlelight Christmas Eve service at our church. In person, finally. Yay. Such a wonderful way to celebrate the One who gave it all!
  • Happy New Year!

     I'm astounded by how blessed I am...how blessed we are, not just the material stuff, but that God sacrificed His one and only Son for someone as mediocre as me. I am in awe of God's presence in the midst of all of it...hills and valleys. I am so, so grateful to Him who deserves all the glory. So, I end this with praise and song for Him.

God be gracious to us and bless us,
And cause His face to shine upon us— Selah
That Your way may be known on the earth,
Your salvation among all nations.
May the peoples praise You, God;
May all the peoples praise You.
Psalm 67:1-3